Ano nga ba ang friend para sa ibang tao? There’s some people says that “Ang friends for me ay They are the people who always make me smile when I was sad.”
I conducted a survey about if they are a true friend or just a friend.
8 people said that they are a SUPER true friend and 2 people said that they are just a friend. Pero ano nga ba ang pinagkaiba ng True friend sa friend.
According to the article that I have read friend is someone who calls you rarely, visits you rarely, and has minimal contact as possible. Just “Hi,How are you?” ” I’m good, you? kind of person. While a True friend is someone, who calls often,visits occationally and keeps in touch just enough.
Sa panahon ngayon it is easy for us to say na True friend ang taong nasa paligid natin. At dahil sa inakala nating True friend sila, Di na tayo nagdadalawang isip na i-share sa kanila ang mga secrets natin.
Pero para sa akin, Ano ba ang True friends?
They are the people who taught me how to be brave, How to confront the enemies, How to love and how to be loved.
May nabasa akong kwento sa Bible na kung saan nagpapakita ng tunay na Pagmamahal ng isang kaibigan.Ang Kwentong pagkakaibigan ni Jonathan at David.
“The Story of David and Jonathan”
Jonathan,The king’s son was kind. He was a good friend to David. They make a promise to each other that whatever happened, they would always be friends
David wanted to leave the palace. He was afraid King Saul would kill him. But Jonathan did not want him to go. “My father will not hurt you,” he said. “He always tells me what he wants to do.”
But David was still afraid. He knew that he was in real danger. King Saul began to hate David. He told Jonathan to kill him. But Jonathan loved David and so he made a plan. “In a field not far from here, there is a great stone,” said Jonathan. “Go and hide behind it. In three days, I will come with my servant and shoot three arrows by its side. If I say to my servant, ‘Go and find the arrows, they are on this side of you, bring them here,’ then you will know that it is safe and there is no danger. But if I say to the boy, ‘Look the arrows are beyond you,’ then you must run away for there is great danger.”
So David hid in the field. Jonathan went to King Saul. He begged him not to kill David. King Saul did not listen. He became very angry. He threw his sword at Jonathan, but it missed him.
Jonathan ran from the palace, calling his servant. He went to the field near the great stone. Soon his arrows flew through the air. “Find the arrows,” called Jonathan. “They are beyond you!”
David heard and he was very sad. The servant found the arrows. Jonathan sent him home. Then David came out of his hiding place. He put his arms around Jonathan. Jonathan told David of his father’s plans to kill him and urged him to go far away where he would be safe. He asked David to remember that they would always be friends.
David ran away. He found a cave near the desert, where he lived for a long time.
Magkalayo man, Hindi nawala ang tunay na pagmamahalan nila sa bawat isa. I think, Lahat ng tao ay nanaisin magkaroon ng ganyang uri ng samahan.
Ayon sa Librong aking nabasa
Ang tunay na kaibigan ay:
1.The true friends will accept you completely kahit isa ka pang kuba Mamahalin ka sa kung Ano man ang pagkatao mo at hindi sa kung anong meron ka.
2.A true friends will appreciate all of your efforts. Hindi yung parahg Good things lang lagi ang napapansin nila sa’yo.
3. A true friend protects you. Hindi yung sinabihan mo sila ng Secrets mo ,then malalaman mo na lang na sekreto ka na palang pinag-uusapan sa buong campus niyo dahil sa secrets mo na pinagkalat ng akala mong true friend.
Minsan darating rin tayo sa punto na Palalayuin tayo ng ating mga ibang kaibigan at pamilya sa ating Circle of friends because they were thinking na Bad influence, toxic, at pariwara sila. In fact, Kapag mahal mo ang kaibigan mo dapat maging ang mindset mo ay tulungan sila na magbago at magpakatao.
VALUE YOUR TRUE FRIENDS. 😊
Embrace the Reality 